The Ingram Christmas Letter 2003

It’s that time of year again! The Ingrams have been busy this year — in one of the highlights of the year, Caitlin, who is in Grade 8, took part in a student walkout in support of the teachers at her school, who were on a “work to rule” campaign to get a better contract. About 400 students walked out at Joseph Howe in Scarborough, and Caitlin actually got quoted in a story about it in the local paper! “I don’t think that, as kids, we should have to be doing this,” she said. A budding trade unionist in the family 🙂

In other news, there were balloon animals, and also lots of birthdays, of course. Zoe had fun in her Sparks group (they’re like starter Brownies, and Becky is a group leader) and fun swimming in the lake, and dressed up as a pirate for Halloween. She also got to sit on the throne during the Christmas party and looked quite regal — like she belonged there! Zoe and I also went for a walk in the woods at Thanksgiving, and it seems like we had a deep conversation, but for the life of me I can’t remember what we talked about. I assume I was sharing the made-up names of various plants just like my mother taught me 🙂

In the summer, there was jumping practice at the lake in Muskoka, and some swimming time at my family’s cottage in the Ottawa Valley, and a windy day on Rouge Beach near our house for Zoe and her friend Cynthia. There were also rainbows, and Becky and her brother Dave coordinated a reunion of what they called their “Tin Can Navy” — a group of friends who all had cottages near each other in Muskoka, and drove around in their aluminum boats delivering newspapers and generally getting up to no good 🙂

Caitlin graduated from high school and looked thoughtful about her future. She also took a trip to Nova Scotia with her cousin Christopher, and they did a tour of the province (or at least some parts of it) with their uncle Jack, who lives there. Meaghan dressed up for Halloween as a rocker and posed along with Zoe in her Dalmation outfit (she also likes to pretend she’s a dog sometimes, up to and including barking at strangers in the grocery store).

We got an impromptu flute concert from Caitlin and Meaghan in the kitchen, and Meaghan, who is in Grade 5, also wrote about the best Christmas gift she ever got, which was the time her grandmother surprised her by visiting us one Christmas when we lived in Calgary. This year, Meaghan got to explore her love of snakes at the annual Globe and Mail Christmas party, and we had an early pre-Christmas at our house in Toronto, where the three girls dressed up in their matching Christmas nightgowns.

For Christmas proper, we all got together at Becky’s family cottage in Muskoka, including all 10 grandkids (Note: I realize the photo linked to there doesn’t show all of them, but I assure you they were there). It was a bit of a tight fit, but somehow we managed it! Meaghan and Zoe even got to have a bath in the big tub together. And that’s about it for our year — hope you and yours had a great one as well. And just remember, while you are doing whatever you are doing, Zoe is planning to take over the world 🙂

Ingram Family Christmas Letter for 2002

Hi everyone! Merry Christmas from Becky and Mathew and Caitlin and Meaghan and Zoe Ingram. We are settling in to our new home near the Rouge river in Toronto — Scarborough to be precise. I (Mathew) am working on the Globe and Mail’s live news website, an experiment that launched last year just in time for the attacks on the World Trade Center in New York. Living in Rouge Hill as they call it makes it easy to get in to the Globe by taking the GO train, which runs right by our house (we are down by the lake). For Becky, much of the year was taken up by a court case in Peterborough, after our friend Kris’s dad was brutally murdered last year by a mentally-ill neighbour on Halloween night.

Other than that, we spent some time in Florida at Becky’s mom and dad’s place in Bay Indies, a retirement park near Venice, south of Sarasota. We took a boat ride across to an island called Rum Bay that has a great BBQ rib restaurant on it, then walked around on the private beach where Zoe did one of her trademark poses. There was a parade and all the girls and Becky got dressed up and made friends with some neighbour kids, and then we went to an aquarium called Moat Marine up in Sarasota and spent some time with Becky’s cousin and her family at their place on Siesta Key. And we had lots of great beach time and pool time and dinner at a place out by the Venice airport (where some of the terrorists from 9/11 did their training apparently, as I found out later) and ran down the jetty at Sharky’s out near Casperson’s beach.

Back home there was a birthday party at Bob and Edie’s cottage in Muskoka and climbing on rocks in the woods and then some jumping on the trampoline at my uncle John’s place in Mississauga and another visit to the cottage in Muskoka in June and a big get-together with Becky’s family and then her cousin Libbie got married at Toronto’s hilarious fake castle Casa Loma where Zoe did her famous Zoe face. There was lots of swimming at the cottage and picnics on the deck and rafting and Meaghan helped her grampa make bread in the bread machine and there was some go-carting and mini golf and tubing and picking berries and saunas to be had and more of Zoe’s trademark posing for the camera. Meaghan had fun in Girl Guides, which Becky helped out with, and the kids got together with their cousins Scott and Curtis and Lindsay at Golden Lake and Meaghan tried the windsurfer and Zoe did some minnow catching and then ran out of gas.

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