{"id":255628,"date":"2023-05-28T16:31:57","date_gmt":"2023-05-28T20:31:57","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/mathewingram.com\/work\/index.php\/2023\/05\/28\/what-your-therapist-doesnt-tell-you\/"},"modified":"2023-05-28T16:31:57","modified_gmt":"2023-05-28T20:31:57","slug":"what-your-therapist-doesnt-tell-you-2","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/mathewingram.com\/work\/2023\/05\/28\/what-your-therapist-doesnt-tell-you-2\/","title":{"rendered":"What your therapist doesn&#8217;t tell you"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" height=\"350\" width=\"525\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/mathewingram.com\/work\/wp-content\/uploads\/male-client-therapist-right-time-feature_1320W_JR-1.png?resize=525%2C350&#038;ssl=1\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-255627\"\/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8220;Maybe from my own point of view, I\u2019m like: \u2018Yes! Break up with that person! Run as fast as you can!\u2019 But from a therapy perspective, I have to empower them to make that choice. I\u2019m only seeing a person for one hour a week, and I might not have the full picture, so I shouldn\u2019t make decisions for someone else. It comes with practice. Honestly, sometimes you do really just want to jump out and be like \u2018Do not do this.\u2019\u201d (<a href=\"https:\/\/www.nytimes.com\/interactive\/2023\/05\/17\/magazine\/therapists-confess.html?smid=nytcore-android-share\">via<\/a>)<\/p>\n<div class=\"syndication-links\"><\/div>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>&#8220;Maybe from my own point of view, I\u2019m like: \u2018Yes! Break up with that person! Run as fast as you can!\u2019 But from a therapy perspective, I have to empower them to make that choice. I\u2019m only seeing a person for one hour a week, and I might not have the full picture, so I &hellip; <\/p>\n<p class=\"link-more\"><a href=\"https:\/\/mathewingram.com\/work\/2023\/05\/28\/what-your-therapist-doesnt-tell-you-2\/\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading<span class=\"screen-reader-text\"> &#8220;What your therapist doesn&#8217;t tell you&#8221;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_crsspst_to_mathewingramblogwordpresscom":true,"mf2_syndication":[],"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":true,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2},"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-255628","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized"],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack-related-posts":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/mathewingram.com\/work\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/255628","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/mathewingram.com\/work\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/mathewingram.com\/work\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mathewingram.com\/work\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mathewingram.com\/work\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=255628"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/mathewingram.com\/work\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/255628\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/mathewingram.com\/work\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=255628"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mathewingram.com\/work\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=255628"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mathewingram.com\/work\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=255628"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}