{"id":2271,"date":"2008-03-15T19:45:45","date_gmt":"2008-03-16T00:45:45","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.mathewingram.com\/work\/2008\/03\/15\/duncan-riley-lessons-in-diplomacy\/"},"modified":"2008-03-15T19:45:45","modified_gmt":"2008-03-16T00:45:45","slug":"duncan-riley-lessons-in-diplomacy","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/mathewingram.com\/work\/2008\/03\/15\/duncan-riley-lessons-in-diplomacy\/","title":{"rendered":"Duncan Riley: Lessons in diplomacy"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>I was going to title this post &#8220;Duncan Riley: Lessons in how to be an asshole,&#8221; but then I thought that would bring me down to the same level as Duncan, and I really don&#8217;t want to do that. I suppose it wouldn&#8217;t be a weekend without <a href=\"http:\/\/www.techmeme.com\/080315\/p10#a080315p10\">a Techmeme bitchfest<\/a> (or what Frederic of The Last Podcast <a href=\"http:\/\/www.lastpodcast.net\/2008\/03\/15\/its-a-bitchmeme-for-sure\/\">calls<\/a> a &#8220;bitchmeme&#8221;), but the one Duncan started is really over the top. Despite the fact that I&#8217;m all relaxed from being in Florida for the past two weeks, I feel compelled to comment.<\/p>\n<p>Disagreeing about the value of a Web app is hardly anything new &#8212; it happens all the time, and it&#8217;s largely a good thing, even if sometimes people get their knickers in a twist over a perceived slight. Differences of opinion can be instructive. But <a href=\"http:\/\/www.duncanriley.com\/2008\/03\/15\/friendfeed-more-hyped-yawn\/\">Duncan&#8217;s response<\/a> to Louis Gray&#8217;s post about FriendFeed is in a whole different category. If Louis lobbed a hand grenade at Duncan with <a href=\"http:\/\/www.louisgray.com\/live\/2008\/03\/duncan-riley-misses-point-of-friendfeed.html\">his post<\/a>, the TechCrunch writer unleashed what amounts to a fleet of Apache attack helicopters in retaliation.<\/p>\n<p>In fact, Louis lobbed what amounts to a wet squib, by questioning Duncan&#8217;s review of FriendFeed with a single phrase: &#8220;quasi-analytic.&#8221; Duncan then responds by calling Louis a nobody, and calls him a &#8220;pious, self-important c*nt.&#8221; Not satisfied with that, he goes on to <a href=\"http:\/\/twitter.com\/duncanriley\/statuses\/772117698\">tell his Twitter friends<\/a> that he &#8220;truly held back&#8221; because he &#8220;only dropped the c word once,&#8221; and <a href=\"http:\/\/twitter.com\/duncanriley\/statuses\/771888048\">that Louis is<\/a> an &#8220;uppity, self-important wanker.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>I know that many Aussies pride themselves on their ability to start (and in many cases finish) a scrap with just about anyone, and it could be that using words like c*nt constitute an intellectual argument in Duncan-land &#8212; but I think Louis deserves an apology. Either Duncan is so desperate for traffic to his blog that he descended to such depths deliberately, or he&#8217;s the kind of person who prefers ad hominem attacks to rational argument. In either case, I think it&#8217;s pretty pathetic.<\/p>\n<div class=\"syndication-links\"><\/div>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I was going to title this post &#8220;Duncan Riley: Lessons in how to be an asshole,&#8221; but then I thought that would bring me down to the same level as Duncan, and I really don&#8217;t want to do that. I suppose it wouldn&#8217;t be a weekend without a Techmeme bitchfest (or what Frederic of The &hellip; <\/p>\n<p class=\"link-more\"><a href=\"https:\/\/mathewingram.com\/work\/2008\/03\/15\/duncan-riley-lessons-in-diplomacy\/\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading<span class=\"screen-reader-text\"> &#8220;Duncan Riley: Lessons in diplomacy&#8221;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_crsspst_to_mathewingramblogwordpresscom":false,"mf2_syndication":[],"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":false,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2}},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-2271","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized"],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack-related-posts":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/mathewingram.com\/work\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2271","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/mathewingram.com\/work\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/mathewingram.com\/work\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mathewingram.com\/work\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mathewingram.com\/work\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=2271"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/mathewingram.com\/work\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2271\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/mathewingram.com\/work\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=2271"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mathewingram.com\/work\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=2271"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mathewingram.com\/work\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=2271"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}