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At Japan’s dementia cafes, forgotten orders are all part of the service

September 19, 2023 at 12:00 a.m. EDT
Toshio Morita is assisted by another staff member as he takes an order from relatives who are visiting him at work at the Cafe of Mistaken Orders, which hires elderly people with dementia to work there once a month. (Irwin Wong for The Washington Post)
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TOKYO — The 85-year-old server was eager to kick off his shift, welcoming customers into the restaurant with a hearty greeting: “Irasshaimase!” or “Welcome!” But when it came time to take their orders, things got a little complicated.

He walked up to a table but forgot his clipboard of order forms. He gingerly delivered a piece of cake to the wrong table. One customer waited 16 minutes for a cup of water after being seated.